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Abercrombie and Fitch isn’t the only store that doesn’t want ‘larger people’

9 May

A big hoo-ha rolling around amongst friends on Facebook is a reminder of a 2006 tone-deaf pronouncement re women larger than size 10 from Abercrombie & Fitch CEO Mike Jeffries that was recently reiterated by Robin Lewis, co-author of The New Rules of Retail, who told Business Insider 

“He doesn’t want larger people shopping in his store, he wants thin and beautiful people,” Lewis told Business Insider. “He doesn’t want his core customers to see people who aren’t as hot as them wearing his clothing. People who wear his clothing should feel like they’re one of the ‘cool kids.’” 

Yep, that pretty well paraphrases Jeffries’ comments to Salon magazine in 2006….no fat chicks

But this really isn’t a surprise to someone like me, who wears between a 14 and 16 (sometimes a 12) and repeatedly finds that she cannot purchase a darned thing from trendy retailers like French Connection and All Saints, and that many designer shops , such as Tory Burch, don’t cater to her size either.

At least the surgically altered Jeffries’ is open and honest about his retailing philosophy.

Not to mention that when I worked at V.S., they had decided to phase out bra sizes over a 38D from the stores, and made them available only online.

For a culture that seems to be obsessed with large breasted women, it’s amazing that we aren’t necessarily wanted in stores unless we are of the surgically augmented variety, with tiny bodies and oversized implants a la  Heidi Montag (who, according to the tabloids now “regrets” having size 32G breasts. yeah, right.)

Over and over, and supposedly, there are retail studies that show the average American woman is somewhere around a 14.  Or a 12, if adjusted for vanity sizing.  This is often considered “plus size.”  However, the true retail Plus Size, or Women’s size 14 really does not fit certain women who are that size.   Me, for instance, when I try to buy a plus size 14, it may fit well around my breasts, but will be HUGE throughout the body of the garment, and much longer than I need it to be.  A size 14, or, in some cases a 12, or a Large, in the Misses’ department (the average height woman) might fit somewhat better in the waist, but still be larger in the hip and length than I want it to be.  Pants are a total “forget it” as the rise is way too long and I end up with droopy crotch and saggy butt.  My best pants size is a 14 petite because of the hip, rise and length, although a 14, 16, or XL petite top is hit or miss–usually they are too short even if they fit across the chest.

Apparently, we are supposed to be getting our clothing altered.  But who has the time and money for alterations?  Who wants to take a crummy pair of $35 or $40 pants and pay an additional $30 or $40 to have them altered so that they fit properly with no droopy crotch, no saggy butt, and not dragging on the floor?

But back to the bit about retailers’ wanting only the “cool kids” in their stores.  Jeffries says that he doesn’t want Abercrombie to be a “vanilla” store that appeals to everybody.  Honestly, he really doesn’t have to limit his sizes for that to happen.  There are a lot of people who wouldn’t shop in his stores, primarily because of the steep price point for Chinese sweat shop garments.    Still, Jeffries’ thinking is about as ironic as a culture that likes size 2 women with unnatural 32G chests.  It turns out that in the average shopping mall, the majority of the stores are aimed at an under 30 customer because it is perceived that an under 30 customer will have money to spend on themselves, whereas the over 30 customer is shopping for family.

Between the negative attitudes of retailers about sizes over 10, and the under 30 target demographic of most mall retailers, is it any wonder that shoppers are flocking to online outlets, where they do not have to face rack upon rack of nothing worth purchasing.

 

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Spring-Summer 2013 Fashion Trend: Tyrrany of the Florals!

16 Apr

OMG!  THEY’RE EVERYWHERE!!!

Florals.  I have a hate/love relationship with florals.  More often, it’s been hate.  Rarely have I found a floral pattern that I’ve liked, and most make me either look or feel like an old lady.  But the ubiquity of florals for this spring-summer fashion season is leaving me little choice but to engage in the wearing of *some* florals.

Although I must admit that last year I picked up a rather nice LC Lauren Conrad brand floral top with ruffles that still looks very nice.  It’s the colors (a lavender-gray with coral-pink flowers.)  So I imagine if I find some other subtle florals, it might not be such a bad thing to wear florals.  Take this Simply Vera Vera Wang dress from Kohl’s

Simply Vera Vera Wang High-Low Floral dress

I love the way that the floral pattern moves from small to large, with a very pretty peach background (although peach is not a great color on me–I still like it.)  To me, this is floral without being FLORAL–if you know what I mean.  And the subtle high-low hem adds a lovely trendy touch that could be done away with next year if the high-low thing goes out of style….

Still, though, I’m having a big problem with floral pants–specifically floral jeans.  No, they’re not happening on me.  They were around last year, too, and they will always and forever remind me of the 1980′s, when I didn’t wear them either.  I Floral Cropped pants from Cachealso will not wear floral printed pajama style pants.  On me, pajama style pants, even with a close-fitting top, don’t quite cut it.  They look  just a bit too casual.  Plus I look like someone squashed a tall person into a short one.  Not good.  I’m also not impressed with floral shorts–although slightly more inclined to wear them than floral jeans.   However, a nice floral pant, in a modern cut with straight legs–not skinny , not that terrible boxy cut, high-water looking deals, or those old-style tapered cut pants,  are on trend and work better than floral jeans (for some of us.  This pair of floral cropped pants from Cache.com would suit me fine.

 

Floral skirts, however, are more my speed:  like this one, an online exclusive  from Ann Taylor Loft Floral Vines Skirt from Loft are great to mix with a bunch of solid-color tops (the print reminds me of Indian textiles.)  Or this Mossimo women's zippered pencil skirt from Targetgorgeous pencil skirt from Mossimo–another online exclusive from Target.  Both patterns are great–one is more classic, the other more trendy-modern, but both would suit my wardrobe and fit me perfectly.

So, like with any trend, pick your pieces according to what would work for you, not against you.  If, like me, the idea of floral jeans just makes you itch, don’t do it.  Or go for a floral pant is a modern cut.   That’s the thing with florals: watch the cut of your pants, or the style of your skirt.  If it’s something you remember from your wardrobe past, you  might want to avoid it at all costs in favor of something a bit more up to date.  Unless you are going strictly and truly vintage, don’t go for something that looks like you picked it up from the discount rack at the Salvation Army or Goodwill–you will only end up looking like someone who hadn’t weeded out their closet since sometime in 1990.  And when you *are* older, there’s nothing that makes you look older than dated styles of clothing!

 

Now on View: The magnificent wardrobe of Frida Kahlo

10 Apr

If you find yourself travelling to Mexico City between now and November 22, 2013, you must plan a visit to the Museo Frida Kahlo  check out the most fascinating first exhibition of Frida Kahlo’s wardrobe, on display for the first time in 60 years….

Why did it take so long to bring Kahlo’s collection of corsets, long skirts, and more to light?  When she died, husband Diego Rivera locked up her possessions for 15 years.  After Rivera passed away, colleague and compadre Dolores Olmedo kept everything securely tucked away for the future.  Olmedo passed in 2004, and since then every piece has been carefully examined and curated in anticipation of this exhibit.

Kahlo in a body cast she painted while on her back recovering from surgery

Kahlo in a body cast she painted while on her back recovering from surgery

It is said that many of the clothes still carry the scent of Kahlo’s perfume and cigarettes, some even stained…..

This is an amazing collection that embodies the life of a most amazing woman and artist, who lived her truth and made no apologies.  On a personal note, the more I find that the more I explore the life of Frida Kahlo, the more I find that the world is never all that kind to women who live their truth, that it is difficult, esp. when that truth is at odds with mores and customs.  But it is always better to live one’s truth than to suffer in society’s straightjacket….

For me, that’s the lesson  I learn from her and the courage she displayed throughout her lifetime.

(H/T to MessyNessyChic for the discovery of this exhibit.)

Melissa McCarthy demonstrates the perils of too-high high heels

9 Apr

Recently, I gave up wearing anything over a 4-inch heel.  And with good reason.  Said reason (or reasons) are aptly demonstrated by Melissa McCarthy in the opening monologue for this past week’s Saturday Night Live…..

The Guys of Mad Men Season Six: Ban-Lon, Bow Ties and Bulges

4 Apr

All right…so by now we’ve all heard about John Hamm’s trouser troubles,* and while that is for some of us a lovely, period-perfect distraction, there’s a lot more to Mad Men’s Season Six fashions then…well….

As with each season, costume designer Janie Bryant has done an incredible job this season by bringing the cast into a mid-1960s mod aesthetic, while letting the character’s personalities shine through (literally and figuratively.) The first thing I noticed in the Season Six promo pics that are circulating is the variety of bow-tie styles in Men’s Eveningwear

the many styles of bow tie ties...

the many styles of bow tie ties…

In this pic, we’ve got both modified (or narrow) butterfly bow ties, and traditional thistle bow ties with pointy ends.  Obviously, these are hand-tied and not clip-ons.  No one in this bunch would be caught dead with a clip-on.  Not while Roger Sterling’s around! (here’s a little bow tie history from Wikipedia.) Besides, this is the 60′s and no man looking to advance in a high-profile company would be caught dead in anything but a tie-it-yourself bow tie at a black tie event.

If you’re at all interested in knowing the ins and outs of tying a bow tie, here’s some instructions on how to do it from the Cordial Churchman (a custom tie maker)

Unlike today,  there really wasn’t much of a need for a guy to stand out at a black-tie affair (unless he was young and going for that hipster vibe) mostly because he could stand out in a crowd on any given day of the week. In the ’60′s, men emerged as fashionable peacocks in a way that hadn’t quite been seen in the 20th Century…

Ban-Lon shirts and bulges were de riguer for the hip peacock of the '60's.

Ban-Lon shirts and bulges were de riguer for the hip peacock of the ’60′s.

A few design notes here….Kenny Cosgrove is sporting a thin tie (perfect!) while Stan Rizzo is hiding his handsomeness under a beard (!?!) and a Ban-Lon shirt.  Here’s a little history of the dreaded Ban-Lon shirt.  What I remember most about the was the feel of the shirt rather than the style.  It had something of a plastic look to it, and I will always associate it with what looked to my little kid’s eyes as Dadwear. In fact, Stan’s slightly high-water pants–oddly, a popular length at that time–also remind me of Dadwear.

Aside from Stan’s Dadwear, the menswear styles on each character draws a clear line between Management in suits and white shirts (the only nod to hipster style in Cosgrove’s thin tie) and Creative (who are dressed…well….in a way that expresses their creativity, shall we say…)  It’s a fascinating picture when looked at from that perspective.

The beard though–that one’s got me a bit confused.  Beards are more frequently associated with the 70′s than with the mid to late 60′s.  If Stan’s going to end up the inspiration for the Brawny paper towel guy look, then he’s nailed it.  Maybe that’s where that look is going (quick! hand the man a plaid shirt please!)

 

(H/T to Tom + Lorenzo for the pics and dish!)

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