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Abercrombie and Fitch isn’t the only store that doesn’t want ‘larger people’

9 May

A big hoo-ha rolling around amongst friends on Facebook is a reminder of a 2006 tone-deaf pronouncement re women larger than size 10 from Abercrombie & Fitch CEO Mike Jeffries that was recently reiterated by Robin Lewis, co-author of The New Rules of Retail, who told Business Insider 

“He doesn’t want larger people shopping in his store, he wants thin and beautiful people,” Lewis told Business Insider. “He doesn’t want his core customers to see people who aren’t as hot as them wearing his clothing. People who wear his clothing should feel like they’re one of the ‘cool kids.’” 

Yep, that pretty well paraphrases Jeffries’ comments to Salon magazine in 2006….no fat chicks

But this really isn’t a surprise to someone like me, who wears between a 14 and 16 (sometimes a 12) and repeatedly finds that she cannot purchase a darned thing from trendy retailers like French Connection and All Saints, and that many designer shops , such as Tory Burch, don’t cater to her size either.

At least the surgically altered Jeffries’ is open and honest about his retailing philosophy.

Not to mention that when I worked at V.S., they had decided to phase out bra sizes over a 38D from the stores, and made them available only online.

For a culture that seems to be obsessed with large breasted women, it’s amazing that we aren’t necessarily wanted in stores unless we are of the surgically augmented variety, with tiny bodies and oversized implants a la  Heidi Montag (who, according to the tabloids now “regrets” having size 32G breasts. yeah, right.)

Over and over, and supposedly, there are retail studies that show the average American woman is somewhere around a 14.  Or a 12, if adjusted for vanity sizing.  This is often considered “plus size.”  However, the true retail Plus Size, or Women’s size 14 really does not fit certain women who are that size.   Me, for instance, when I try to buy a plus size 14, it may fit well around my breasts, but will be HUGE throughout the body of the garment, and much longer than I need it to be.  A size 14, or, in some cases a 12, or a Large, in the Misses’ department (the average height woman) might fit somewhat better in the waist, but still be larger in the hip and length than I want it to be.  Pants are a total “forget it” as the rise is way too long and I end up with droopy crotch and saggy butt.  My best pants size is a 14 petite because of the hip, rise and length, although a 14, 16, or XL petite top is hit or miss–usually they are too short even if they fit across the chest.

Apparently, we are supposed to be getting our clothing altered.  But who has the time and money for alterations?  Who wants to take a crummy pair of $35 or $40 pants and pay an additional $30 or $40 to have them altered so that they fit properly with no droopy crotch, no saggy butt, and not dragging on the floor?

But back to the bit about retailers’ wanting only the “cool kids” in their stores.  Jeffries says that he doesn’t want Abercrombie to be a “vanilla” store that appeals to everybody.  Honestly, he really doesn’t have to limit his sizes for that to happen.  There are a lot of people who wouldn’t shop in his stores, primarily because of the steep price point for Chinese sweat shop garments.    Still, Jeffries’ thinking is about as ironic as a culture that likes size 2 women with unnatural 32G chests.  It turns out that in the average shopping mall, the majority of the stores are aimed at an under 30 customer because it is perceived that an under 30 customer will have money to spend on themselves, whereas the over 30 customer is shopping for family.

Between the negative attitudes of retailers about sizes over 10, and the under 30 target demographic of most mall retailers, is it any wonder that shoppers are flocking to online outlets, where they do not have to face rack upon rack of nothing worth purchasing.

 

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Now on View: The magnificent wardrobe of Frida Kahlo

10 Apr

If you find yourself travelling to Mexico City between now and November 22, 2013, you must plan a visit to the Museo Frida Kahlo  check out the most fascinating first exhibition of Frida Kahlo’s wardrobe, on display for the first time in 60 years….

Why did it take so long to bring Kahlo’s collection of corsets, long skirts, and more to light?  When she died, husband Diego Rivera locked up her possessions for 15 years.  After Rivera passed away, colleague and compadre Dolores Olmedo kept everything securely tucked away for the future.  Olmedo passed in 2004, and since then every piece has been carefully examined and curated in anticipation of this exhibit.

Kahlo in a body cast she painted while on her back recovering from surgery

Kahlo in a body cast she painted while on her back recovering from surgery

It is said that many of the clothes still carry the scent of Kahlo’s perfume and cigarettes, some even stained…..

This is an amazing collection that embodies the life of a most amazing woman and artist, who lived her truth and made no apologies.  On a personal note, the more I find that the more I explore the life of Frida Kahlo, the more I find that the world is never all that kind to women who live their truth, that it is difficult, esp. when that truth is at odds with mores and customs.  But it is always better to live one’s truth than to suffer in society’s straightjacket….

For me, that’s the lesson  I learn from her and the courage she displayed throughout her lifetime.

(H/T to MessyNessyChic for the discovery of this exhibit.)

New L’Oreal Paris Global E-Commerce Site Offers All the Products You Can’t (and can) Find At the Drugstore and More!

19 Mar
Sea Fleur (630) and Peach Fuzz (417)

Sea Fleur (630) and Peach Fuzz (417) your favorite shades? Now you can purchase from lorealparisusa.com (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Have you ever been completely pissed that the local drugstore or retailer no longer carries your favorite L’Oreal eye shadow, lipstick, or make up shade?  Have you immediately assumed that the color cosmetics product was discontinued?   What about other L’Oreal products that you wanted to purchase but couldn’t find at any local store?   Before you give up, first take a moment to check out L’Oreal Paris’s newly revamped global e-commerce platform!

There’s so much to explore on this site (besides finding those shades you can’t find in the store.)  You can create an account to receive offers and other perks, register for the Gold Rewards program for L’Oreal hair care products, and read lots of great beauty-related content.

Now, from a design perspective, the site is set up so that it is flexible enough to be used across a variety of devices–from your laptop, to your smartphone, to your tablet.  By personalizing users experience across platforms, the company seeks to keep you coming back to their site no matter what device you use to access it.

Pretty smart!  And a nice perk for all of us who are updating our communication devices at the speed of light (or so it feels.)  This way we will not have to purchase or download a new app, import our info or re-register.   All our info, and L’Oreal’s content,  is there, whenever and wherever we want it.

It certainly beats driving all over Creation to  track down a Pink Tulle eye shadow and Drumbeat Red lipstick, that’s for sure!

Photo of curvy Swedish mannequins goes viral, people say “Hey! That’s NOT obese! That’s real!”

19 Mar
Size 12 and 16 mannequins in Swedish department store display

Size 12 and 16 mannequins on display in Swedish department store Ahlens

Perhaps you’ve seen this photo already.  A friend on Facebook posted it, or someone tweeted it, or it showed up somewhere else.  Apparently, this photo, of new mannequins in a Swedish department store, one a size 12 and one a size 16, is stimulating conversations all over a host of media platforms about whether these mannequins represent real women or if they are tacitly giving women permission to be obese.

It was originally thought that the mannequins were in an H & M store, but a spokesperson for H & M told media outlets that these were not in H & M stores.  If anyone’s ever shopped an H & M store recently, one would know that these mannequins are far too large to display any of the merchandise in H & M.

Further, they are not the first mannequins to be of a size or have dimensions that do not reflect the average mannequin size of 4 or 6 (American.)  A common sight in many malls, since at least 2004,  is the “big booty” mannequin form, also big booty Brailian formsknown as the Brazilian form, that display those tight-fitting, spandex loaded, street-style jeans.  The dimensions on these forms boast 24 inch waists and 39 inch hips/butt.

But the “big booty” form isn’t necessarily any more true to women’s proportions than the average size 4 or 6 department and clothing store mannequins.

Back to the Swedish mannequns….the photo above first appeared on the Women’s Rights News timeline on Facebook.  Among the 3,302 comments on the photo are discussions about whether or not the mannequins encourage obesity, whether or not they represent “real” women and commentary from naturally thin women who often express feeling put down by those of us who are not thin.  What is most interesting in the comments is the young man who says that women of that size are eating wrong foods and not exercising, hence are “fat,”  and the woman who suggests that women in the U.S. and Canada are “too fat” and are not of what is considered average size.

Now, the woman who commented about Americans being “too fat” compared to some of our European counterparts may have a point.  And I put huge emphasis on MAY, as even across Europe there is no agreement on what is or isn’t an average size woman.   However, the American perception of what is or isn’t “fat,” “overweight,” or “obese” continually fluctuates, and vanity sizing doesn’t help.  Depending on the manufacturer or designer, I know that my size can range anywhere from 12 to 16.  In vintage clothing, I might be an 18, 20, or 22, depending on the outfit (many times vintage evening wear was altered to fit the owner, so the size tag may not be the true indication of the actual size.)  So, some of us may think we are far smaller than we may have been in another American decade.

This isn’t our fault but the fault of fashion marketers who want to make us feel good when we buy their clothing–and studies have shown that vanity sizing pays off for them.  If anything contributes to our obesity–besides high calorie snacks, sodas, and processed foods–it’s the current state of vanity sizing.

Then again, some clothing manufacturers argue that vanity sizing is really meeting the expanding waistline demands of Americans.

Guess it’s really a chicken-egg argument…..

Still, it would be nice if we saw more mannequins that reflect the way we actually look.  Or if we stopped being so sensitive about mannequins in the first place.  Most of the stores I shop in use headless or faceless mannequins so that I don’t even notice the face or body, but look at the clothing.  What is perhaps more important is if our fashion magazines and our runway shows, where we see real people and not mannequins, reflect what the fashion buying public look like.

Then again, models were once called mannequins–before they were made out of plaster and fiberglass….

Product Review: Nuance By Salma Hayek Flax Seed Age Therapy Shampoo

15 Mar

At the end of February, in desperate need of a good shampoo, I asked the question Am I Ready for Age-Defying Hair Care Products? As far as I could tell–given my age and the amount of times over the decades I colored my hair–the answer is Nuance Hair Carea definite Yes.  After considering a number of brands and products, I settled on another product from the Nuance by Salma Hayek line: the Flax Seed Age Therapy Shampoo and Conditioner.    Here’s how I decided on this product and what happened…..

For starters, the choice of  age defying hair care products at my local CVS was small and a bit dubious.  Some products were the kinds meant to brighten gray hair–which I don’t have.  Others were very expensive (I’m on a budget, you know,) or had lists of ingredients with long chemical names that I didn’t understand, and I subsequently trusted even less.  I go mostly for products that have natural ingredients high on their lists* and have other additives that I know will not weigh down my hair.  Of the products I considered, the Nuance Flax Seed Age Therapy Shampoo had a strong list of natural ingredients, some which I am very familiar with and felt confident about using.  Also, Nuance products are not animal tested and are made in the U.S.A.**

Well,  this is some great shampoo!  Aside from a lovely scent, and fantastic ingredients that include linseed (flax) extract and vicia faba seed extract (from faba beans,) two ingredients that are lightweight and boost healthy hair growth (see more here.) The shampoo and conditioner impart strength, shine, and flexibility to my hair, while conditioning my scalp and not fading my over-the-counter hair color (another product I will review later.)    I found that after a few washings, my hair is less flyaway, has a nice “hefty” feel to it, holds heat styling better, and is not dulled by hairspray or other styling products. I can do an every-other day wash, with the in-between dates looking just about as if freshly washed.

Bottom line:  I am very impressed with this hair product–and it lives up to its claims.  My hair has a softness and natural shine, excellent texture and body.  I plan to keep using it,  and, as a result, I am very interested in trying other Nuance hair care products.  I am especially impressed, too, by the reasonable price point that keeps it within my budget!

 

 

*When buying cosmetics that contain natural ingredients, always look for the ones where the natural ingredients come in the middle of the pack and before things like dimethicone or fragrance.  This way you will know that you are getting a product where the natural ingredients will be effective because they are not diluted or cut with fillers.

**Always look at where your beauty products are produced.  Those produced in the U.S.A., France, Germany, Italy, the Czech Republic and a few other countries usually have high quality ingredients and are less harsh on your skin.  BB Creams produced in South Korea are also a good bet, although they may be formulated primarily for Asian complexions.  Cosmetics made in China and a few other Pacific Rim countries may contain questionable ingredients and be of a lower quality.

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